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Jack Welch

Control your own destiny or someone else will..

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Let your hopes, not your hurts, shape your future..

Les Brown

You are the only real obstacle in your path to a fulfilling life. -Les Brown.

Showing posts with label Love Story. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Love Story. Show all posts

Saturday, 21 July 2018

Lack of Patience- Sad Love Story

A couple has been married for over 9 years plus without children.

Dave and Clara stayed with each other and hoped that they will have a child before their 10th year of marriage runs out.  They were under pressure from friends and family members to get a divorce; but they couldn't let go, because of the love between them.  

Months passed.  And one day, while Dave was returning from work, he saw his wife walking down the road with a man, the man had his arms around her neck and they looked very happy.
 For over a week, he saw the same man with his wife at various places. And one evening  while Dave was returning from work, he saw the  man giving his wife a kiss on the cheek at the front of their house, Dave was very angry and sad.

Two days later after a hectic day at work, Dave was taking water with a glass jug from the dispenser when the phone rang. He picked it up and the person said, “Hello dear, I'll be coming to your house this evening to see you as promised. I hope..... ".  Dave hung-up the phone. It was a male voice and he was sure the person was the man he had always seen her with.

 He suddenly became shaky with the thought that he has lost his wife to another man. The glass jug fell from his hand and shattered into pieces. Clara came running into the room asking, "Is everything okay?"

In anger he gave his wife a push and she fell. She wasn't moving or getting up. Dave then realized that she fell on the broken glass. A large piece of glass had pierced her. He felt her breath but there she lay lifeless. His wife was dead. In total confusion, he saw an envelope in her hand. He took it, opened it and was shocked by its content -it was a letter with a message;

"My loving husband, words cannot express how I feel. I have been going to see a doctor for over a week and I wanted to be sure before I give you the news. The doctor confirmed it that I am pregnant with a twins and our baby is due 7months from now. The same doctor is my brother who I lost his contact after our marriage. He has promised to take care of me and our baby and give us the best without collecting a dime. He also promised to have dinner with us today. I am putting this on your favorite chair in the sitting room for you to remember the day you proposed to me and I said "Yes" because I was so happy. Thanks for staying by my side". -Your loving wife. The letter fell from his hand.

There was a knock at the door and the same man he had seen with his wife came in and said, "Hello Dave, hope  I'm right? It's John, the brother of your wife and..." Suddenly, John noticed his sister lying in a pool of her own blood. He rushed her to the hospital and she was confirmed dead! Her twins baby gone. He lost everything. A pleasant surprise gone awry.

LESSONS

Do you think his wife take it a little bits far? What should the man have done in this situation?

Trust and patience are two important virtues required for a successful marriage. Maybe some will blame the wife for taking her A LONGER time to share with her husband what was going on. 

Regardless, this is a sad end to what could have been a superb testimony. Unfortunately in our world today, trust has become a scarce virtue. If the husband has been patient, he could have been the father of a twins while still having his wife alive.

Friends, be patient. Be careful not to jump into conclusion. The end result may change the course of your life. I also want to pray for someone reading this that may the spirit of error that makes a man to lose God’s plan for your life will not take a hold of your life. May you not be found missing when you miracle and blessing come ‘knocking’ at your door. Your life will not end in regret. Amen!

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Sunday, 24 June 2018

Making Relationship Work


Love is ageless, any love that fades is not real, any love that dwindles is not strong..
Don't be deceived, be calm but smart to know who is dating you..

If you refused to face reality; you end up in dead relationship.

WHEN YOU'RE READY TO MAKE IT WORK:

√ First, you must realize that one person doesn't keep relationship, is a collective effort in communication, attention, care and aspirations.

√ The most welcome response to LOVE is Reciprocation.
If you can't reciprocate that feeling, love, attention, time, passion, you will eliminate "Value" and "happiness" in your relationship.

√ Say what you want in a relationship; procrastination, won't make it work..
Time is to expensive in love..

√ Relationship is a sickler, love is the doctor, happiness is its drugs..
If your love is fake it won't work..

√ Making relationship work entails self control and discipline.
Without it, you're dating for fun..

√ Remove "Trust" from any relationship, you're making monkery of yourselves.
To make it work, you MUST trust your partner.

√ Learn to admit your fault and shut up when your right...
Relationship is not a law Court..

√ Don't say you won't talk about it. No! Learn to listen and hear him/her out..
Is a place of correction not condemnation.

√ There is nothing more destructive in a relationship than selfishness..
Change the language from " I" to " We"....

√ Don't date for merriment; date for marriage.
It will guide and guard your intention to your destination.

√ Is good to talk about marriage in your relationship, but don't promise when you're not ready...

√ If your Ex is still in the picture, you won't move forward, let your present have your attention...

Look beyond what you can gain and focus on how to make it work for marriage..

In God We Trust..

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Friday, 22 June 2018

To love and To Care - Episode 4


I have discovered that love doesn't guarantee the success of a relationship. Love cannot help you stick to one person all year round, and on the other hand, cheating isn't always a product of not loving your partner. In fact, loving someone doesn't guarantee not falling in love with someone else.

Relationships work out mostly because of our head not our heart. It works out because of our emotional maturity, empathetic intelligence and self-discipline because, time will come when you'll see more beautiful, handsome, romantic, intelligent, sexy, rich, curvy and God-fearing people than the one you're in a relationship with.

In those times, love will not help you; self-control will help you, emotional intelligence will come to your rescue and commitment will keep you going. With those characteristics, no matter how you feel for someone else, the person you're committed to will rank first in your life.

You think happily married people don't see better people than the ones they married? You think they don't feel funny sometimes? You think they don't catch feelings? They do!

But understanding that commitment is greater than feelings is the great arsenal that do destroy that impulse.

You can fall in love with anyone, but building a relationship takes absolutely more than what attracted you to them and takes more than love.

We are too fond of loving when it's convenient and sweet. We are too fond of loving when love is there but that can only last for, sometimes, just the first 3-6 months of the relationship. After then, you'll realize that the feelings have dropped, it's now your responsibility to make it work, not love's responsibility.

Relationships cannot be readymade. You have to build it and it's never always about love, it requires commitment and intelligence. On the long run in marriages, it's not just love that keeps them together forever, it's determination and commitment.

Everyone falls in love; it takes little or no effort to do that. But staying in love? Building a relationship? Only the strong and committed ones do that.

That's why we must find that one person and commit to that one, discipline yourself and bridle your emotions.

Building a relationship is hard work, it's like building a career, it’s like pursuing a dream. It’s always tough, at some point it will be so bitter, but you can make it work by putting your heads together, you can scale through the trying time by being focused and committed.

The kind of love that attracts two people together is not the kind of love that will keep them together. Be emotionally strong and be self-disciplined.

This article is written by Modupe- A member of daybydaylifelessons


Monday, 18 June 2018

HEART BREAKING - DayByDay LIfe Lessons

HEART BREAKING ๐Ÿ’”๐Ÿ’”๐Ÿ’”

Didn't she tell you she had a boyfriend? Why then did you keep disturbing her? She rejected your calls and you sent her text that made her pity you, she finally picks and you said all the sweet things you could think of, she ask you to stop and end the call, you kept calling, she off her phone. You continued like that after 2 weeks she feels a bit relaxed with you she now smiles when you call her pet names but refused to respond to them and still warns you to stop calling her those names because she felt uneasy and insecure about the whole thing. But you don't care and continued like that

After 45days she could kiss you on phone and tell you how much she loves you..

You invited her to your house and she found it difficult to say yes, you pretended to be angry because you now know how much she loves you, and she called back to apologize and promised to come then you smile . You quickly wash your utensils, arrange your room, bought air freshener brought out your white towel that you Don't use as usual, bought Protection and some hard drugs To Help you impress her..

Saturday came and she didn't make it because her conscience didn't allow her to come, you called and used her feelings against her, she felt so guilty and apologized !
Sunday morning she dressed for church and heads to your one room apartment, it was below her expectation compare to what you said on phone when trying to win her heart but love conquered the feeling a normal person should get from such poor impression.

She asked for a sit, you ask her to sit on the bed.
She did, you went out to buy a drink for her then she lifted the pillow and saw the protection and felt so bad and afraid of your plan, then you came in and started talking about her beauty and relationship life, she didn't want to talk about it but you insisted...

She opened up how she loved kelvin and he broke her heart and how Elvis showed her to his parents just to lure her to his bed,how Steve engaged her and was later caught red handed on top of another girl, she began to weep, she explained how she decided never to love any man again till she's ready for marriage.

You felt like a guru for winning her heart again, you went closer, held her, cuddled her, kissed her, you wanted to do it, she refused and continues weeping, you pet her the more and she melted, you went in.... She screamed, you did it too hard to impress her and she cried her soul out, and you're done!!!
You woke up, saw your protection busted, you sighed, she held you very close, she's inlove so much now, you look at her and felt disgusted, you felt "she's not even a virgin after all her pretence" then you ended the relationship in your heart, you hurried her to go home and she did.

She started calling and you started feeling like father Abraham, you suddenly became busy, you don't have her time, she came to your house after 5days of your attitude, saw you with another girl ... She cried home, waited for your calls, you felt less concern, she called you and you ignored for days....

SHE FELT PLAYED AGAIN!!!
She broke down..
She lost appetite...
She lost hope on men...
She went to mark the date on her calendar and noticed it was new month, she checked her undies, NO BLOOD!! Jesus !!!

She missed her period...
She called and called, you kept ignoring...
She sent a message, you disappeared...
She came looking for you for weeks .
YOU PACKED OUT!!!
she took all forms of hot substances to kill the child, GOT DONE!!!
Years later she got married....
Years later she couldnt conceive....
Years later she lost her marriage....
Years later she remarried....
Years later she couldn't conceive...
The doctor came in... and said......
SHE DAMAGED HER WOMB!!!
Husband remarried....
She couldn't leave the marriage this time...
She became a slave in her matrimonial home....
Bros that is her present condition right now..
But you're happily married somewhere with your wife and family. And you talk about God and heaven right?
JUST BECAUSE OF YOU !!
JUST BECAUSE OF YOUR URGE !
JUST BECAUSE OF PLEASURE !!

Don't say you love her if you know you will cheat on her and abandon her.๐Ÿ˜ญ๐Ÿ˜ญ๐Ÿ˜ญ๐Ÿ˜ญ๐Ÿ’”๐Ÿ’”๐Ÿ’”


ADVICE TO MEN

ADVICE TO MEN

You met a girl and you both fell in love..Months pass by and you still going strong then she gets attached, calls you all the time, double texts you, makes you her WhatsApp profile picture, she sleeps over at your house whenever you ask her to, she takes you to movies with her own money, she does everything to make you HAPPY.. Later, she starts hearing rumours, she confronts you and you deny (as usual).

She catches you with different girls you apologise and she forgives you because she loves you. She starts to be skeptical about herself, starts feeling like she is not enough for you, she is not beautiful enough, you cheat time and time again, she tries fighting for the relationship but she realizes that she is fighting alone.

She walks away and you don't even try stopping her because 900+ likes means you can get any girl you want.. Months later you are in a relationship with a new girl that is more beautiful, more curvy than her.. You take cute pictures and you start posting them with cute captions. She finds out and it broke her because you have never posted her pictures nor made her your WhatsApp Dp before...
"She is still trying to get over you"...

Your new girl cheats on you so you walk away and move from relationship to relationship..unfortunately, they don't just happen over night.. You then realize that she is the only girl that has ever loved you๐Ÿ’ฏ.. the only girl that had your back..Your RIDE or DIE..
You try messaging her and she blocked your ass cause seeing your pictures with that girl broke her.

One day, while at the mall you bump into her and she is still beautiful and you decide to talk to her, to tell her you are sorry and try to fix things but a guy shows up and holds her hand. She tells you it's her boyfriend and they came to celebrate their one year anniversary.

By then you'll realize that you lost the moon while counting the stars.

DON'T BE A VICTIM!

Men cherish what you've got and be satisfied.